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Mushroom_52344 🇺🇸

منذ شهرين

شعور وحيد

I hate how alone I feel even in a room full of people, more specifically my family and realizing that they will never understand me and that they don’t even put in the effort to understand or even ask why I feel and think the way I do.

Jackfruit_51332 🇪🇬 They may be close to you but they do not understand you. Try as much as possible to communicate with them and talk to them and describe to them what you feel. They may not know what is inside you from afar, but soon they will appreciate what you are. Do not despair. Try

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French Fries_42234 🇪🇬

منذ 3 أشهر

شعور ضائع

شعور سخيف اوي إنك مش عارف ترتاح لحد وديماً حاسس انك هتتعرض للأذي وإن اي كلام لطيف بيتقال ليك مش حقيقي واي إهتمام بيكون مزيف وتيجي ال trust issues تزود الشعور السخيف دا وتخليك تسأل نفسك امتي هتتعرض للأذي والخزلان من الناس وامتي هيحصل كذا وكذا وكذا... اااااااااااااااااااااااااااااااااااااااااااااا

Marshmallow_46399 🇯🇴

منذ 5 أشهر

شعور لا مبالٍ

Go ahead and cry, little girl Nobody does it like you do I know how much it matters to you I know that you got daddy issues And if you were my little girl I'd do whatever I could do I'd run away and hide with you I know that you got daddy issues, and I do too

Cherry_50984 🇹🇳

منذ 5 أشهر

شعور مستنزف

i lost all feelings, i killed them to be specific ,my life now is meaningless, i can't find the will to live anymore, don't get me wrong, i did not give up on my life, it's just hard for me now to find meaning in life, m fighting and pushing myself to try new things and pushing myself to continue, b

Potato_50259 🇪🇬

منذ 5 أشهر

شعور محبط

I am currently struggling with a relationship issue. My partner and I used to be so close, but recently, it feels like there's a distance growing between us. We don't communicate as much as we used to, and when we do, it often leads to misunderstandings or arguments. I feel like I’m putting in all t

Mango_11276 🇶🇦

منذ 6 أشهر

شعور مستنزف

I lost the ability to trust for some reason, idk why but everytime someone is showing me genuine love and loyalty, I keep thinking they’re doing something behind my back, or maybe I’m being betrayed and I’m not aware of it, is this normal?

Banana_27601 🇪🇬

منذ 6 أشهر

شعور متعب

عارف لمى يكون عندك Over thinking بمعنى فرط فى التفكير و اللى بتحبه عنده trust issues ترجمتها الحرفيه عدم ثقه و تكونوا عايزين بعض بس كل واحد مش مطمن الاول مش مطمن ان الاول عايزه و التانى خايف من اللى ممكن يحصل دا فعلا اسوء موقف ممكن يحصل انا فى الدوامه دى و مش عارف اخرج قلت ابعد لحد ما اقدر اتقدم بس

Corn_40648 🇹🇷 اما people غريبة بشكل .

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French Fries_34069 🇹🇳

منذ 7 أشهر

شعور متعب

okkk I'm in relationship with someone i really love. and I'm sure he loves me too but he don't like talk about problems and i want a romantic relationship but i don't know how to tell himm any help?

Marshmallow_31900 🇪🇬

منذ 7 أشهر

شعور مرتبك

so basically, i’ve been through lots of toxic relationships before, now i’m in a healthy situationship i feel like somthing is not right, he’s perfect i swear he’s everything i’ve ever asked for, he truly loves me and ik, he treats me so well i feel like it’s too good to be true, i keep thinking thi

Ice Cream_29517 🇹🇳

منذ 7 أشهر

شعور ضائع

A friend and I had an argument In fact, we say that we are just friends, but his behavior and how jealous he feels when I talk to others Don't suggest we're just friends at all The important thing is that about two days ago we had an argument because I reposted a photo of an old friend of mine A tri

Mango_28622 🇹🇷

منذ 7 أشهر

شعور مرتبك

hiii so my story is about me and my guy friend we’ve been friends since 2023 time passed by and we became really close like literally bffs he basically cares about me i care about him i always think of him tbh he used to text me all the time and when i don’t reply on time he gets scared he asks

Coffee_28529 🇪🇬 Maybe try to confess to him about how u feel and see his respond?

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Coffee_26413 🇪🇬

منذ 7 أشهر

شعور محبط

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ازاي بتتعاملوا مع العصبية اللي بتأثر عليكم نفسيا؟

مؤخراً بقي عندي anger issues بجد صعبه اوي و اقل حاجه بتعصبني و تخليني عايزه اكسر اي حاجه قدامي او اضرب اللي قدامي حرفياً و بحس اني مجنونه وقتها و لو حد اتكلم معايا بحس ان خلاص نهايه العالم و هتجنن اكتر و للاسف مش عارفه ازاي اسيطر عليها بقالي سنه ونص في الحاله دي و مش عارفه اخرج منها ولا ابطل ابقي ع

Coffee_27371 🇪🇬 فالاغلب انتى سكتى كتير وعديتى مواقف صعبه وجيتى ع نفسك فجه الانفجار ده من كتر التحمل حاولى تكتبى كل مشاعرك واى موقف واقعد شويع مع نفسك وخلى دايرتك فيه ناس مريحه متضغطكيش الفترة ديه شوفى هوايه بتحبى تعمليها طلعى فيها طاقتك حاولى تتمشى كل يوم فيه تمارين تنفس عاليوتيوب اعمليها

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Biscuit_26081 🇧🇾

منذ 7 أشهر

شعور مكسور القلب

I met one of my best friend today we did eye contact without any talking and my body started shaking after i remembered all what she did to me 💔 i really wanted to talk to her and our relation back but this is impossible because she didn’t even try to say sorry or try to fix anything and she is to

Cherry_25285 🇩🇿

منذ 8 أشهر

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موضوع:

كم مرة تعرضتم للخيانة من شريك حياتكم؟

i met him 4y ago and I've fallen in love with him since the first date, i thought that we will be together but he doesnt like being in relationships, he wanted us to get engaged but my dad didnt accept cause i was young, so we got stuck in a situationship for 3y, i loved him from the bottom of my he

Hazelnut_22040 🇪🇬 It won't be the last time you'll have anxiety and no one deserves to be stuck in a relationship that will sooner or later consume you.

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Coconut_21578 🇹🇳

منذ 9 أشهر

شعور مرتبك

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There's this guy named muneer, he's from india, i knew him from ablo ( a social media app more than a dating app) okay, we've been talking, i was always cold to him, sometimes i show him that i care about him, (just for the plot) then, in time, he confessed to me, he said that he liked me,i expected it but i acted like i didn't even knew about it.. I said no, let's be friends, just friends, nothing more.. We kept talking like now for more than 2 years now.. And now, he's getting married in 8days.. And i'm happy for him, but the thing is that i'm afraid that what i did to him is coming back to me with this other guy, named adem, from turkey, we met on azar (a dating app), since february 2022.. We were video calling for like one week maybe, daily, 2hours a day minimum.. It was fun.. He asked me let's video call, i send him that i'm busy with some photos.. And he as well he tells me what he's doing.. After, it was going to fade.. And then, we were just talking in random days and times and that's how it really went.. Till 13 july 2023, i sent him a long message that i loved him, and he said, i love you too, it's always good to have people love me.. And then, we stopped.. On 2nd of junuary 2024, i sent him a happy new year message and then, i told him i got something to say.. And then, he said go ahaid, i'm curious to know.. So i told him that i remember i said that i liked you, but i didn't it was just a crush.. And he said that i thought it was a normal love that anyone can get, not romantically, and i remember that i said i love you too.. And i said no you didn't say that actually, you just said, it's good to have someone who love me, thank you.. And then, i said, for me it's over and for you it never started, and that's totally okay.. And i asked him if he has something to say.. He said, i love you, and you love me too, but i think we should never got a further idea in our head because we're so different persons, and that i' m the only arap girl he enjoyed talking to.. and things like that.. And i reacted 😂 to his message, and said, all i can say is that i liked you despite these things you've mentioned.. And since that we got no contact.. The day before ramadan, i remember we were talking normally, after, i tried to text him to say ramadan kareem, so i double and triple texting him, but he didn't answer, not even see the messages.. Again, on 30april 2024, on his birthday, i tried to send him a happy birthday message, but in vain.. Till that day, i don't know what if he's alive, dead... Oh yeah, he's alive :).. I szw him reacting on an instagram post. Not gonna lie, it was good to see him reacting and active on some of these posts.. At least he's there.. Oh yeah, b1ck in time when i was unable to get over adem, on ramadan, march 2024, i was using another dating app "meeff" As i told you, i'm on a dating app.. There's this korean guy, He liked my profile first and then i liked him back.. We started talking, this took place on march of this year, while we were talking on telegram, i sent him a message on his insta asking him about living in korea, and he was open to talk, he asked if i had a bf or no.. So i said no and i blocked him (talking to him using my fake acc).. After few days maybe, and it was on ramadan, he asked me what we do in this month, i told him, as a muslim, we need to do fasting, he said i'll try it, he litteraly fasts the day after we talked about it.. After few times, when we're talking he said i really like you, i can tell that you're a good person from the way you text me, and i want to be in a relationship with you, (less than a week since we've met).. I told him, we need to get to know each other better and to make sure about our feelings and thoughts.. Etc.. He said let's be in a relationship and after we can get to know each other, we still have time,the most important is that we are in the same page.. Not gonna lie i said okay, two days after maybe, he asked me to let him buy anything for me as a gift for his girlfriend, he said that he's jalous of his friends buying things to their girlfriends and he's unable to do it, he asked me about my adress to send me stuff, i said no, i can't accept anything from anyon.. At the end of the discussion, i told him, to buy them and when he came to tunisia, he can bring them with him.. (still in the month of march).. In some days we talk peacefully, maybe twice, he didn't send me a text for a day.. And that hurts me.. So i decided to talk to him whe he's back, and he said i got a bad wifi and internet connection.. So, okay i forgave him and said he'q going to change his place of work for better internet.. (on april), he asked me to buy  an iTunes cause it's not available in his city, card because he nees it in his work.. I told him okay, i'll look for it, he thanks me, after i told him i didn't get one, i can get it in the mall, he said, can't you go buy it for me ? I said no, it's 600km away.. After some time, i asked him what happened with the iTunes, he said i got it, one of my friends from usa has bought it for me.. I said thanks god, it's been solved.. Oh yeah, i didn't tell you about this, at first, he said i want to try a long distance relationship, and get a foreigner girlfriend.. After, i asked him if he really love me, or he's with me just because he wants to try a long distance relationship.. He said not for that.. I genuinely love you, why can't you believe me ? After a few hours, he texted me saying that he's making plans to visit , my country, just to show how serious he is, bringing me the gifts he already bought for me and that he said he's willing to meet my family and he's planning to stay for a month.. I was happy, not gonna lie, but at the same time, i was afraid.. Because i can't trust him.. The day after, i told him that i talked with my sister about you, he was like wow, and what did she said, i told him, she was like how can you trust him ? He just wanted to experience a long distance relationship, he said it directly.. He was angry, and said and what do you think ? I said we need to have more time, we need to make sure what we think and what we really want.. He said, okay, i'll let you manage everything.. We stayed like for a day without talking, he was angry not gonna lie.. I said sorry to him for making him feel upset or frustrated.. And then, we were okay.. Days goes by, he stoped texting me for like 2days maybe.. And then he was like hi baby😭.. And i was like.. Oh look who's back ! It's you!.. He saisd, sorry i got some problems at my work.. He lost his job and his company's money.. And i don't know what to do.. I started to support him psychologically, he said i appreciate your presence, after he said i want to to afford me some money, i need you and i know that it's my job as a boyfriend to afford the money for his girlfriend not the inverse.. I told him that i can't because i don't have the much amount of money you need.. He said it's okay for now, you just can give me whatever and i won't forget your help.. I said no i can't give you the money i get from my family.. I want to be trustworthy.. And here we started to get an argument he said you always do what your family say, if they say we have to break up, you'll break up with me.. You need to do things for your love.. And i said, if it's my money, i'll do it.. But now, i don't have my money, my personal money, so it's not mine and i can't give it to anyone else, not only you, anyone.. And then we broke up, he said, when you end speaking, get me out of your DMs.. and i didn't, so we did the after, he get me out of his DMs. (end of the story, 18 april, 2024) [i can't believe i forgot the day we already started talking]

Anyway, what do you think about this situation ?

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